Hi my name is miss ellie and my main reason for joining this forum is to aid the process of those who are going through Dore now and in the future.My daughter completed Dore in October 2005 and has never looked back. I have a lot of faith in Dore as I have seen first hand with Leila how the treatment can change their lives.
Leila always struggled at school and with life in general, she always seemed to be cocooned in a world of her own from an early age, as she reached school age she was classed as just being inmature, a slow learner and don't worry she will catch up. But of course she didn't, by the time she was 9 she was 3 years behind her peers at school, never sat any of the usual school tests as it was felt she wouldn't cope which she wouldn't. I saw my daughter becoming more of a loner at home and school and I dispaired for what her future held. My attempts to get a diagnosis for her problems through the educational psychologist, dyslexia association and paediatritian all agreed she had profound leaning difficulties but because she had a verbal IQ scale of 81 and performance scale of 92 it was considered that she was learning within her IQ range.
I decided in desperation to try and find a reason for Leila's problems and so began a 6 month search on the internet to find it. This was not an easy task Leila was never given a diagnosis for her difficulties so I was looking blind. After that 6 months I had just come off the intenet after another fruiteless search and on sky TV there was an advert for a programme called the Dore achievment center. The symptoms they described fitted with the problems Leila was getting. So back on the computer did their on line questionnaire and within one month she was at the center and I finally had her diagnosis Cerebellum Development Delay.
So began our journey to help Leila to finally be able to learn on the same level as her peers and to finally give her the potential to go for whatever she wanted to do in life. Her progress was slow at first and it was the little things that happened, riding a bike, not falling over daily at school, being able to skip. But as the treatment progressed so did Leila's abilities and confidence. She sat her first exams 6 months into Dore and even though she was ungraded in all subjects the school felt she was progressing well. 18 months down the line Leila finished Dore. Where she was ungraded the year before she was now graded 3 on a par with all her peers, she was finally able to came out of learning needs for the first time ever and has moved onto secondary school. We have seen a child blossom from one who was considered as a low achiever to one who is making up for lost time and is now able to look forward to the future and know that what ever she wants to do in life is now achievable.
Without Dore her future was very bleak she would have continued to struggle with even the basics in life and I cannot imagine how she would have coped alone in the future. With Dore they gave us a happy contented child who has wisdom beyond her years and one who draws the young and old to her with her ability to see the good in everybody and a serenity which says I am happy to be me and I know what I want out of life. You cannot ask for anything better than that can you
Ellie mum to Leila 2 years post Dore who is now finally able to learn on a par with her peers at school and Kieran aged 7 commenced Dore 7th January 2008